Thursday, February 22, 2007

Men Want Their Wives To Be Like Me???

This post is a special post…

I receive hundreds of emails per year from guys telling me that my husband is a very lucky guy because of having such an open minded woman at his side.

That of course flatters me, but the truth is… I’m also a difficult person at times, and he is also  stuburn and difficult at times. Is basic human nature. BUT The most important thing is that BOTH of us understand each other very well and no matter what happens we know that we’re there for eachother. We are absolute “Partners in Crime”.

Many guys have told me: I wish my wife would be like you! That always makes me think…

I cannot imagine myself not being the way I am, simply because of “keeping up with appearances”. Want to share something with you that is important and that I think you need to hear BUT before I tell you that, I wamt you to listen to the lyrics of this song. ( Lyrics are below)

After the song is finished I will tell you my “life changing”point:

Hey lady, you lady
cursing at your life
you’re a discontented mother
and a regimented wife
I have no doubt
you dream about the things you never do
but I wish someone had talked to me like I wanna talk to you

Oh, I’ve been to Georgia and California and anywhere I could run
Took the hand of a preacher man
and we made love in the sun
But I ran out of places and friendly faces
Because I had to be free
I’ve been to paradise but I’ve never been to me…

Please lady please lady
don’t just walk away
Cause I have this need to tell you
why I’m all alone today
I can see so much of me
still living in your eyes
won’t you share a part
of a weary heart that has lived a million lives

Oh, I’ve been to Nice and the isle of Greece
when I sipped champagne on a yacht
I moved like Harlow in Monte Carlo
and showed them what I’ve got
I’ve been undressed by kings
and I’ve seen some things that a woman ain’t s’pose to see
I’ve been to paradise but I’ve never been to me…

Hey, you know what paradise is?
It’s a lie
a fantasy we created about people and places
as we like them to be
but you know what truth is?
it’s that little baby you’re holding
and it’s that man you fought with this morning
the same one you are gonna make love to tonight
that’s truth that’s love

Sometimes I’ve been to crying for unborn children
that might have made me complete
but I, I took the sweet life
I never knew I’d be bitter from the sweet
I spent my life exploring
the subtle whoring
that costs too much to be free
hey lady I’ve been to paradise
but I’ve never been to me…

I’ve been to paradise but I’ve never been to me…

Beautiful lyrics ha?

We’ll here’s my point

Words of wisdom from a bisexual woman:

For the Man in the relationship: ” If you wish your wife will be more open, make sure you encourage her, support her and most important LOVE her! In my experience women open up when they feel loved and secure in their relationship. “Don’t wish things were different, Instead think how you can be better for her” how you can make her feel supported loved and encouraged, and you will see women will open up!

For the female in the relationship: “I’m no different than any other woman, I’ve been exposed to different experiences and those experiences have made me think differently. If you’re like me you were possibly raised in a world of contradictions and taboos… possibly the only difference between me and you is that I left behind those taboos and those contradictions. A relationship is much, much better when you live it at it’s fullest…

Here’s my point:

Life exists in experimentation! Open up and be supportive of each other no matter what… sex and love CAN be separated. Monogamy does not necessarily means monotony!

Support her and she will open up!

Grant him his fantasy and he will support you.

Enjoy!

Suzy 

Posted by Trinity Publishing in 23:46:36
Comments

2 Responses

  1. Andrew Stewart says:

    Nicely said Suzy. A moving post this morning
    Warm encouragement from a man whose wife is not like you,
    and I’m fine with it
    Andrew.

  2. Ronis says:

    Hey, you’re totally right, with all due respect…I wish my wife was like you are, it has been kind of difficult to convince my wife to kiss another girl and to actually get into a relationship with that person but I’ll keep trying. Thanks for the blogs

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